TY - BOOK AU - Neffinger, John. TI - Compelling people: the hidden qualities that make us influential SN - 9781469056470 U1 - 158.2NEF PY - 2014/// CY - US PB - Gildan Media KW - Leadership N2 - Everyone wants to be more appealing and effective, but few believe we can manage the personal magnetism of a Bill Clinton or an Oprah Winfrey. John Neffinger and Matthew Kohut trace the path to influence through a balance of strength (the root of respect) and warmth (the root of affection). Each seems simple, but only a few of us figure out the tricky task of projecting both at once ER -