TY - BOOK AU - Patterson, Kerry. TI - Crucial conversations: tools for talking when stakes are high SN - 9780071771320 U1 - 153.6PAT PY - 2012/// CY - New York PB - Mcgraw-Hill KW - Interpersonal communication N1 - Includes bibliographical references and index N2 - What's a crucial conversation? : and who cares? -- Mastering crucial conversations : the power of dialogue -- Start with heart : how to stay focused on what you really want -- Learn to look : how to notice when safety is at risk -- Make it safe : how to make it safe to talk about almost anything -- Master my stories : how to stay in dialogue when you're angry, scared, or hurt -- State my path : how to speak persuasively, not abrasively -- Explore others' paths : how to listen when others blow up or clam up -- Move to action : how to turn crucial conversations into action and results -- Yeah, but : advice for tough cases -- Putting it all together : tools for preparing and learning ER -